Monday, August 28, 2006

Babysitting the Pooks




When Ben and Jen moved a couple weekends ago, we had the privilege of keeping the little girl at our house. She had a good time, I think. We had most of her stuffed animals and toys here, and somehow, she discovered the "secondary" pup. I tried to capture a cute pose of her enjoying TWO Pups at a time. Josh was worried that we would completely distort her sense of Pupness, so eventually, I took secondary pup away from her. Friday, I took Lydia on a cute little shopping day -- just for her! We got her a cute outfit and even got a little Chick-fil-A kid's meal. She also played at Barnes & Noble and picked out a Dora, The Explorer book. We had just started calling her a little Explorer in Minnesota because of her peripatetic ways.


Lydia is the queen of all the animals. She has quite a selection of stuffed toys. :-) This was Lydia's first time spending the night away from her mama and papa. She seemed to do really well, probably because she's very used to our house. Josh got her up in the morning, and she was ready to play.


And finally, a recent picture of me and the little baby. I thought some of you might like to see some evidence of a little "baby bump." I'm definitely gaining weight, and people are finally beginning to say that they can tell I'm showing. I still haven't gained back all of my weight from the begining, but I'm getting there.

Saturday, August 19, 2006

It's a . . . . . . .

Girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thursday, I had my OB checkup and ultra sound. Both were really great. It was incredible to see our little baby girl drinking a nice amniotic fluid cocktail and hiccuping. I immediately fell in love with the cuteness of my baby's nose. She also had one of her arms up around her head in a position that her daddy often sleeps in. By the end of the ultrasound she had moved her legs up so that they were touching her forehead. I was intrigued to think that all the "kicks" I've been feeling might actually be her little arm up over her head poking me. She weighs a mere 11 or 12 oz. She'll be growing a lot in the next few months.
Now that we know that we are having a daughter, things seem a lot more real. For all of those out there who thought we were having a little boy, I hope our surprising news brings a smile to your face. If any of you have seen Josh with his little neice, you know that having a little girl will be a perfect fit for someone destined to have a "Daddy's Little Girl." Lisa informs me that I will have to be the strong one. :-)

Tuesday, August 08, 2006

Fun in the Sun, part 1

PUKE WATCH
The last few weeks have been quite eventful, even for a regular non-pregnant person who sadly counts true excitement as going to the grocery store for the 2nd time in four months! But, enough sadness! Two weeks ago I finished my last dose of Zofran, went to fill the Rx, discovered I wouldn't be able to because the insurance company doesn't want to spend a gazillion dollars keeping me puke free, and left for vacation with fears & worries which did not materialize. Thankfully, I've been feeling marvelously better. I was eating the same food that other people ate, and it all tasted good!

PINE CITY
The euphoria of these discoveries, plus the plain joy of being with family in some of the most beautiful surroundings ever, made my vacation pretty fantastic. Ben, Jen, Lydia, Josh and I flew into Minneapolis with little event. We spent a few days visiting with my aunts, uncles, and grandparents on my mom's side. It was nice to visit the farm again and soak up relaxing pace of life in Pine City. We had several family dinners and lots of good time talking and laughing. Uncharacteristically, we didn't play our family sport, Dutch Blitz (or, as I grew up calling it -- Demon).

LAKE KJOSTAD
Sunday morning we left for the cabin to join up with the rest of the family. Imagine: one cabin, two bedrooms, one loft, eleven people (including one toddler), not enough beds, and most importantly, only one bathroom. This could be a picture of hell on this earth, but amazingly, it worked out much better than we anxiously were imagining. First of all, Josh's wonderful Uncle Dave & Aunt Diane had purchased an a/c window unit which made the loft bearable. Secondly, Lydia slept like a rock and even Grandpa's snoring didn't wake her up. Thirdly, Matt & Jake made the huge sacrifice and slept on couches that were more and/or less comfortable and had climate control issues AND had people walking right by them beginning at six o'clock in the morning.


HIGHLIGHTS
Highlights of the vacation were spending most of my time reading, eating home made junk food fresh out of the oven, watching Lydia yelp with delight every time Bosco the friendly dog walked past, sitting in a lounge chair by the lake reading some more, and sitting in the front of the boat with my eyes closed feeling the wind wooshing past me! I didn't participate in some of the super fun activities that the rest of the crew did such as fish, fish, fish, canoe, swim, play water baseball, frisball, or play Spades. I just sat very contentendly surrounded by my favorite people and read. According to Ben, I was pulling a Susie. Sometimes, that's just enough. Also, I only meant SOME of my favorite people. There many of my favorite people who weren't present, although for this I am thankful, as the presence of 10 more people would have severely compromised my ability to enjoy the lovely cabin by the lake.

BABY BAILEY
On a baby front, there's exciting news this week. Just before we went on vacation I started feeling these little twitches in my abdomen that felt remarkably similar to muscle twitches in my legs and arms that I have while my body is trying to fall asleep. The location led me to believe that I was in fact, feeling little kicks or jabs from baby Chip. Over vacation, the frequency of the these twitches increased and last night, as Josh and I were watching tv, the amazing happened. Josh felt the baby kick, too. The force was much stronger than any time before so he could actually feel it outside my belly. It surprised both of us, and I think we both sort of jumped.

Monday, August 07, 2006

Fun in the Sun, part 2

Unfortunately, my usual habit of chronicling every event in life with a marvelous pictoral display was absent from this vacation. I only have a few pics, and most of them are of the cute kid that was with us. Hopefully others will have more of a variety.


On one of her many tramps through woods.


Just chilling with her daddy



Naked Baby!!!


We are trying to teach her to LOVE tomatoes, unlike her mom & dad



A Fine Day for Fishing on Bass Lake. . the motto was "We threw back 25 or 30"


Jen enjoyed Lydia's extraordinarily long naptimes by relaxing with a book and a beverage.


Although we tried to teach Lydia to love the lake, she mainly loved walking in about 2 inches of lake water, not hanging out in the "deep" end. We'll chalk it up to her new found skill of walking. Can't do that in 2 ft of water, can ya?


Jake's 20th birthday was celebrated before we left for vacation. Sorry there wasn't a shape cake this year.

Monday, July 17, 2006

Ok, so I lied!

Hello everyone,
I was led astray by a website -- I am indeed as of Saturday the 15th, 16 weeks (4 mo.) along. I should have followed my inner mommy instinct. I had an appt with a midwife this time. The appt went really well. The biggest difference was that I felt WAYY more comfortable asking questions than I had with a doctor. The doctor couldn't have been nicer, but there is something about talking to a woman that gives a different spin to the conversation. So, when the midwife and I got to talking about 'belly-hair', there was no embarrassment or desire to pretend that of course I looked like a hair less goddess in my bathing suit. :-) I don't think any boys read this blog, so I feel fairly comfortable talking about it here.
Anyway, besides the personal rapport that I felt, I also had a good visit babywise. I had gained one pound (yipee). I didn't feel that it was that grandiose of an accomplishment, but the midwife seemed content with it. We heard the baby's heartbeat. It was much easier to find this time. Still beating at 150 beats per minute. (Which is good!) Also, we heard a few thumps, which I was informed were KICKS. The midwife opined that my baby was active. You didn't have to tell me that! Our next appointment we'll get to have another ultrasound which may reveal the gender of our little bambino.
I also got an Rx for Xofran to help me cope with the vomiting. Actually, it's supposed to help eliminate the vomiting. It's worked so far and I am really excited about that. But, the downside is that it is a heavy duty medicine, expensive for our insurance co. and just heavy duty for my body. I hope that baby follows Josh's advice and and lets the medicine just pass on by.

Tuesday, July 04, 2006

15 WEEKS

Alright, I think I lost a week somewhere in the process. Or rather, I lost track of the weeks and ended up gaining a week! I have a Doctor's appointment next week, so I suppose I would have found out then. I'm making slow but sure improvements, for which I am sooooooooo thankful. I've introduced a little soy back into my life, which has brought CHOCOLATE back into my life. I hadn't realized how lonely I was until I had my first drink of chocolate soymilk and -- WOW. I also bought a little bit of chocolate soy ice cream by the name of Chocolate Obsession. Incredible how your tastebuds forget. So, I'm temporarily over my nectarine binge and have moved on to chocolate Silk. (That's the name for the chocolate soy milk-- clever, ain't it?)
Yesterday was a banner day for me and visitors. Josh worked from home for part of the day, Brittny came and visited for awhile, and then later in the day Ben, Jen, and Lydia dropped by. People are the best kind of distraction for me. :-)
I also want to take this opportunity to laud my husband to the skies. His patience is really being tested by practically 12 weeks of non-normal home life. Non-regulated laundry, food, ironing, bed-making, bathroom cleaning, you name it -- NON NORMAL. He has become an expert grocery shopper and a clever cleaning guy, too. Also, we decided that if we ever needed any extra cash, we could hire him out to iron people's clothes. He's WAY better at it than I am.
Well, have a wonderful FOURTH OF JULY everyone.