Calling all Mommies!

I'm currently in the straits of thinking about nursery furniture. I feel like I'm a little behind the 8 ball here, but I have some queries for all the experienced mommies out there.

1. What do you think of these lifetime cribs? Did any of you buy one and actually use the toddler portion?? Unfortunately, if it's not worth it, it seems virtually impossible to find a crib that does NOT convert in a style that I like.

2. What do you think about cribs without the movable gate on one side? In other words, they are fixed lower than the back. The particular one I was looking at seemed quite low to me which is actually a good thing since I'm a shorty. It does have variable mattress positions, however.

3. Do you any of you have WHITE crib furniture and do you think that the paint holds up to child abuse as well as a stain might????

4. Do any of you have any particular commendations on your crib or brand of crib??

Thanks for your input! Sorry to you non-Mom's for this particularly focused post.

Hee Haw

This is Josh's sad attempt to take a self-portrait of us at the Falls. This was a case of 3 strikes and you're OUT! Fortunately, a passerby took pity on us and snapped the photo you will see a little lower. :-)

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Autumn Escapes

Friday Fall Color
Josh and I had a wonderful time on our weekend getaway. Both our drive up and back down could be described as meanders. We got off the Interstate as soon as we could and spent our time on state highways that wove through some gorgeous country. Our favorite spot was in NW South Carolina where the color was still in peak. On Friday we saw it from a distance on I-26, and then on the way back we tooled through the color, driving down Caesar's Head. (I didn't take that pic either. In fact, it's probably of Hwy 11, which we also drove, but this is really what it looked like!) It was glorious! Unfortunately, that road didn't have any stop off's that were convenient, so the views will be kept only in our mind's eye. We also saw our future retirement/vacation home spot -- Lake Keowee. Check out some more pictures that I didn't take. Lake Keowee. The backdrop of the mountains on the bluegreen water was quite breathtaking. Unfortunately, we left the brilliant fall color behind immediately as we crossed over the North Carolina line. It was as though the trees knew where the state line was.

Wine & Grape Juice
Once in Asheville, we drove directly to the Biltmore to enjoy a wine tasting and culinary show. Josh found some tasty vintages and learned a little bit about tasting wine. We didn't buy any wine because it's much more difficult for him to take out a whole bottle of wine by himself (I'm sure my parents will be glad to know this). Late afternoon at the Biltmore was really relaxing. The sun gave that extra glow to fields and few yellow-leaved trees. We checked into our hotel which, incidentally, was NOT right across from the Biltmore. We did make it to the Early Girl Eatery (not particularly early, though) for dinner. Very delicious!

Saturday Walk
Saturday we attempted to take it easy, but I think both Josh and I were somewhat wiped out. We toured the Asheville downtown area, lunched, and then headed over to the Biltmore Gardens for a little walk. The views were wonderful! Mr. Vanderbilt enjoyed them quite a bit, too. In fact, his vistas were very important. He bought all the land that his eye could see, all the way to Mt. Pisgah! I believe the total acreage was 125,000. Some of the land he purchased for only $2/acre, but some of it cost a few $100 per. He also built an observatory in the house that featured views of the estate instead of the typical views of the stars. The weather was a little bit chilly, so we took haven in the Conservatory. We finally made it up the stone walkway for the obligatory Biltmore photo. Josh was holding our camera bag, so he must have looked like a really expert photographer. He was asked about 5 times to take pictures of other people.

CandleLight
The real highlight of the day came a little later. Josh and I had reservations at the Stable Cafe. I think this is the first time we've ever had a fancy meal like that together. Both of us ordered Prime Rime which just melted in our mouth. The entire dessert menu was lactose FULL, so the chef whipped a little something special just for me. I couldn't believe it. While we dined, night fell, and a thousand little Biltmore Gnomes scurried around putting up hurricane lamps around the entire drive and upper stone walkway. Quite a sight! The interior of the house was gorgeously decorated and lit up with candles and Christmas lights. The audio tour was tailored for Christmas time, so we got to find out about some of the Biltmore Christmas traditions. Edith Vanderbilt made it her job to buy Christmas presents for every person on the estate -- 1500 presents. She did much of her shopping at the local Biltmore Village, but she also ordered some of her special of toys from FAO Shwarz. Imagine wrapping all of those gifts!

Another neat feature of the Candlelight tour was the live music in the Winter Garden, which is in the center of the home. The entire first floor tour keeps returning to the center, so you have a lot of opportunities to hear the music. While we were there, they had a chorale, a quartet, and a harpist. Finishing the tour was a real feat for me -- really. My FEET were killing me! Even Josh's feet were killing him. I took a long soak when we returned to the hotel so that I could jump straight into bed.

A Sunday Drive
Since I walked off my feet the day before, we decided that our day would be spent on all four wheels. As I mentioned at the beginning, this did not limit our sightseeing in the least. We had the most enjoyable drive home on Sunday through the Blue Ridge Parkway, down Pisgah Ridge through our favorite area of Caesar's Head. We stopped at a neat little roadside waterfall called Looking Glass Rock. I will admit I did have some concerns when we finally made it down from the mountains and my brakes were giving off a really encouraging odor. Thankfully, there was no real problem with the brakes, they just got a little overheated on their long trip down. We let them rest while we lunched at Pumpkintown Cafe. As usual, vacation with Josh was all about finding neat spots to eat. I'm sure that when we have kids this will cease to be quite the adventure that it is these days. We also did quite a bit of talking, and I think I even told Josh a few stories he hadn't heard! Now that's truly amazing. We did a little bit of name calling (just kidding -- we talked about baby names), but we didn't come to any middle name conclusions.

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Deja Vu

We won't mention how many deja vu's Bob has had, but we celebrated last weekend. The other deja vu he experienced was receiving the same birthday gift as two years ago. He lost his first pair of sunglasses we gave him, so we thought we'd give him another chance to look so shnazzy. The Bailey home is in various states of finishedness, so all Josh could find to rest his little body on were some couch pillows on the floor. I guess someone else had had the great idea and brought the pillows up from the basement previously. And, although the last picture isn't the "cutest" per se, use your imagination to fill in the before and after. Lydia loves finding spots that are her own. She found the perfect cabinet and had fun in that for awhile. She also loves to sit down on the stairs, because they are the perfect little chair for her. She shared a special moment with Papa on the step. She loves to get up and sit down over and over. She also gave Papa some of her adorable love pats. They start off gentle back pats and end up a twinge more vigorous.

December Babies Bring October Showers

Last weekend, Nan Doster hosted a lovely baby shower for me. It was so exciting, albeit a smidge overwhelming. Of course, I've never been one to 'hate' the limelight, but it's even more fun now that I'm sharing it with my little girl. The gifts were so adorable, some practical, some super fun! We received some major items that will really help us not spend the chunk o change I was dreading dropping at Babies R Us. We got our stroller/travel system, high chair, swing, and pac n' play, as well as a number of cute, little outfits. There were a few handmade presents that were are practically heirloom items. I hired a professional photographer to chronicle the event, and she's posted her pictures at her dropshot's website. Just click on Saturday, Oct 21st and you can see the entire collection. Many thanks to everyone who came and made it such a fun event, especially my faithful fans: Kelley, Julie, Beth, Becky, Grandma, Teisha, Anna, and Big Kate. :-) Even you silent lurkers will have a mention here! P.S. I was cursed by a humongous and hideous cold sore for the entire week leading up to this beauteous event. Unfortunately, the curse was still upon me on Saturday even though I did my fair share of praying about it. Thankfully, in most of Steph's pictures, it's not that evident (PTL!). I've never had one before in my life -- why now? why me? Thank heavens for base makeup and cover up, too! Enjoy these highlights, but don't neglect to look at all of them!

Lisa made the most delicious cake customized for Liz Lactose Problems.


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Look how cute Lydia looks in some of her new fall wardrobe (AND how un-Ben like). Her inner Jen is coming out.

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Here's a good side shot of that bump. It actually might be beyond the term "bump." Amy is holding her most adorable red headed child, Emma Reese.

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Here comes the Piggie! I had three pieces of cake!

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I was so excited that Becky was able to come to my shower.

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Here's the Moseley/Bailey fam with Emma peeking out of the window. I think Lydia is sticking her tongue out at the photographer!

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Just me! I recently got a hair cut which I desperately needed. I'm highly pleased with it.

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An Updated Bump

I'm definitely packing on the pounds these days. I go to the o.b. this morning (if I can stop blogging!) so I'll have a definite # shortly. I thought I'd let you see what I look like these days -- as Bob B. calls me -- I'm his outstanding daughter in law. The second picture shows my nursery bedding.